There are so many things to learn in life. We have learned by hearing instruction, making application, and realizing the results but mostly we tend to learn the hard way. We have made some of the most damaging mistakes and felt the hurt through the results of being stupid, selfish, and neglectful. It is our attempt to help people from our own tragic mistakes and what we have survived by the grace and mercy of God, as well as from the many ways we have gained knowledge such as listening to others, reading books written on marriage and relationships, and most importantly by listening to the Word.
Things we say and write may offend some, and although it is not our intention to offend, you need to know we are very candid, real, and direct about the subjects we discuss. Now having said that, we are considerate, understanding, and sympathetic towards the situations people are facing in their own relationships. We are just not very bashful about needing to discuss the conversations to overcome the mistakes and foolishness we in our society tolerate, which are dissolving the purity, sanctity, and design of marital relationships.
It is not our aim to offend anyone but to wake you up to the reality you may be choosing to ignore. We can honestly say that in our mistakes, it boiled down to “ME” being the problem. Fix “ME” and see what happens! This is an unpleasant experience, fixing “ME”, but a necessary one, and one that is very much opposed in our modern societal view. We are taught and pushed to focus on “ME” and make everything about “ME”, but it is time for “ME” to look into the mirror and see that for which “I” really am responsible in the shortcomings of our marriages.
We offer: Marriage Retreats, Marriage Seminars, Revivals, and more.
We are full time in ministry work and love helping others. It is sobering to pray for, prepare and present information about marriage. Please understand that we do not claim to be anything other than qualified in the “School of Hard Knocks.” We would like to share with you a lifetime of regret before you have to live one of your own!